When the 2004 tsunami hit the coast of Sri Lanka, 65-year-old Anton Ambrose's wife and daughter were killed. "In five minutes," he says, "I lost everything." A year later, Anton returns to Sri Lanka. With him is his nephew, award-winning filmmaker Rohan Fernando. A Tamil, Anton moved to California in the 1970s and became a very successful gynecologist. His daughter, Orlantha, made the opposite journey, returning to Sri Lanka where she ran a non-profit group that gave underprivileged children free violin lessons. Anton and his wife, Beulah, were visiting her when the tsunami hit. Blood and Water is the story …
Blood and Water is as much about Dr. Ambrose coming to terms with the death of his wife and daughter as it is about dealing with his formative years in Sri Lanka. Discuss how his ethnic identity influences his relationship with his son and his understanding of his relationship with his late daughter. The film contrasts the lives of immigrant families with those of their children—how does this duality in cultural identity affect the way first-generation kids approach life decisions?